Hi Robin and a late welcome to NT. I'm sorry you're experiencing these symptoms and the frustration of not getting a diagnosis. Some of your symptoms do sound like MS, but they could also be many other diseases that mimic MS. As you can see by my signature, I have both -- MS came first, then while on one of the Injectable drugs I developed fibro.
Sometimes it's difficult differentiating between the two -- they both have a lot of pain (at least for me). And MS is another one that they diagnose after ruling out a bunch of other things. Good luck with whatever your outcome may be!
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