Please understand that it's not uncommon for family and friends to abandon some of us. Let him know how rare he his and how much you appreciate him. Also, an 18 male is often the eqivelant of a 15 or 16 year old girl. The fact that he's so thoughtful is amazing. When you're having a good day make sure you do something for him to let him know how much you appreciate him.

P.S. And good luck with BCH's program!!!