LOL Allen!!
I'm not sure how I would manage now - when J and I were living together I was far better than I am now - I still couldn't walk or weight bear on my legs but I didn't have the same level of spasticity or pretzel ness that I now do. (I mean the fact it takes my carers about 10 minutes every night to take my trousers or knickers off because my legs have twisted around each other - locking them together - might ruin passion a little bit - as might the threat to bite them if they touch me).
It's a hard one. I used to take muscle relaxants before sex and then some painkillers before or after. The worst was the endorphine rush - you'd forget for a moment how horrible the pain is - and then you'd be thrown right back into normal RSD pain + Alloydinic + movement pain - AGH!
Keep on trying - hey viagra is supposd to improve blood flow isn't it? I vaguely remember a girl with RSD being treated with it and finding it very succesful - hey, symptom reduction AND sex - sorted

LOL!
Good luck - and the same to you Mark!! I'm sure you could pick up some girl on the virtual vacation!!
Love
Froggsy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx