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Originally Posted by Stacyrose
Hi everyone,
I'm new to the site and learned the ins and outs of it. I finally came accross an intro thread. My life came to a hault 9 months ago when I was 9 months pregnant with our first born son and got the call my husband had been in a dirt bike accident. The first few months were beyond stressful dealing with a newborn and my husband with a TBI. Everyone comments on my strength and always says " I dont know how you did/do it." I feel so isolated because I know no one knows what I am going through. I don't wish this upon anyone of course, but feeling alone and isolated is a hard feeling, especailly with you don't have your husband there for you. I am beyond grateful that he survived and is here today by my side and our son has a dad. It is still heartwrenching for me though because he is a completely different person. He gets frustrated and just seems unhappy but won't talk to me or anyone else. I don't know how to talk to him. No matter what I say it's wrong so I try to just keep things light and fun for us and the baby. It's definitely wearing on me. So I came on here to try to find some support. Well baby is up from his nap...Thanks for listening.
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Well my heart goes out to you. I went through something I look back now and ask my self how I did it. In April of 2005 I was due for my 5th son, and my mom got put into the hospital. I went into labor early at a different hospital, told the nurses my mom was real sick so the day after he was born less than 24 hours old they released me and my son to be able to go see my mom. I made it to the hospital and an hour later she died, but at least I was by her side.Then after going through that a few weeks later, my husband got attacked on his was home and got stabbed in his eye and had to go under emergency surgery when they had to remove his eye. I lost my faith in GOD just so angry but stay strong and keep your faith in GOD you will look back and be amazed at how you got through what you did. Also my friends sons father who at the time was her boyfriend, had a brain injury due to lack of oxygen to his brain during a heart attack at the age of 32. He now lives in assisted living pairalysed from the waist down due to that along with memory loss. He remembers nothing about his life and my bf of 16 yrs turned her back on him after he did everything for her. So stay strong, bye the way she is no longer my bf she turned bad met a guy and started doing drugs, karma got her.