Stacyrose,

You ought to get a white board and post it in an easy to see area. We have ours on the refrigerator. Use it to post notes. Only post the musts, not the want to's or wines. The baby wines enough so he does not need them from you. Mom's have their needs but right now it will help if you suck it up and hold back. Give him a chance to get his bearings.

You need to tell him the NeuroPsych Assessment is not about treatment. It is just to assess his condition. You can even try framing it as "I want to know more about your condition. You likely do not understand your own condition so an NPA can help us understand so we can make plans for the future/baby. Be careful to not let it sound like you are blaming him. You just want to understand.

Keep posting so you can get out of probation and have PM and email features available.