Looks like my post didn't post. Hmm...well...I got him to say yes to seeing a neuropsyc!!! So over the moon about this. It's taken me months to get this answer. We are just waiting on insurance, which shouldn't take too long. I also found a great neuropsychologist in our area!
Thank you for the white board idea. I used to use one when he was in the hospital and new to home but I stopped. I will bring it back out again.

Things are progressing....phew!