Hello and welcome to NeuroTalk!
If you haven't visited the
TBI & PCS Forum here is a link
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html
I think you'll find some folks who can truly relate to your specific situation there.
As always, you're welcome to visit and participate in any forum that you find helpful but I think this one can offer you some real support.
Welcome to the group!