Awwww Mair.. So sorry.. And yes, I sooo know
the helpless feeling. 1st time two young paras lifted
me to my sofa and I was fine.

2nd time 1 little STRONG Para, lifted me from the
garage floor to my chair, using the bear hug. ..
Amazing!! But I ended up in the hospital that time..

After both times, after it was over, I had a good cry
from fear, anger and pity.

That lifty thingy is all I know about too. Be careful sweety..