I agree, too! From what you had written at various times, I was afraid that he wasn't right for you, but I also knew that you would find your way and figure it out for yourself sooner or later....looks like sooner
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At least you have friends that you can go out with without having to hassle with his idiosyncri...well, you know what I mean
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Take care,, keep getting out there and enjoying yourself!
Hugs, Jacquie