((((((Nikko)))))),



I'm glad you took the highway, sugar. Or, showed him the highway. Whichever.

You don't need a drinker. And you certainly don't need a yeller (hmmm!! interesting word ... yellow ... yeller ... hmmm!!).

Nikko, you probably don't see it -- 'cause you're inside yourself But, *WE* see how much you've grown and changed. You **DESERVE** better -- much better.

I know all of us women want someone to love us and to take care of us -- even when we're "strong". But, what we really want is someone who will treat us as an *EQUAL*. Equal doesn't mean you can tell me what to do and yell at me. Equal means if we have a problem we discuss it.

You've got TONS of support here and elsewhere. People who believe in you. And believe that you'll find more and better. There's no deadline. No time clock. It'll happen when you're ready. And, I know you're ready

BIG HUGS (and love). Stay strong. And don't take no crap.

Barb