I have one in my file from back when a medical practice group decided in advance of my spinal fusion they could and would do nothing..... of course, this was followed by a letter to file from one of the more charitable doctors forwarning any follow on doctor the patient is a lawyer [what difference does that make?]. Within two weeks I had full blown cauda equina syndrome, the pain was forcing me to scream until I passed out from exhaustion, and the lower half of my body shut down...... completely. A much more compassionate doc said "I can help that," and he did.
Dear Saffy, you are such a blessed lady and friend. I am saddened to learn this is your present lot, and I PRAY something somwhere can be brought to bear so as to help you with this situation.
Prayin,
Yup,