Brokenfriend, I am so sorry for the pain you are enduring, especially with the loss of your father and your friend, You have my deepest sympathy on their passing.
As another with MS, I understand a little of what your sister would be going through because I too am recovering from pneumonia. I'm home from the hospital now but am still quite weak so be aware that it may take your sister quite some time to get over the pneumonia. I certainly didn't think it would take me this long, but it has. I do hope they don't discharge your sister until she feels well enough to cope at home.
I will pray for you BF and for your sister. Please let us know how she's progressing.
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