I have learned from my asperger's son that there is no such thing as a normal person.
I appreacte the feedback you provided. My main concern was either over or under reacting to her needs.
It was an interested response from her seeing me opening, closeing the door and helping with the seatbelt of my truck for her. I think she thought at first I was treating her like a china doll, but that is how I treat my dates. I am not old fashion, I just like treating any girl/lady(any age) as a lady.
Also thanks for the last tip, I did express to her that I do want to be with her, even if she feels really bad that she can not go out..