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Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 2,871
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Magnate
Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 2,871
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apples
BF, I would say not to put all your heartfelt apples in one basket...He is a man, he is not a person that we can every mold to our needs. Even my husband after almost 40 years of knowing each other and being married, never have it all together. In the flip of a moment, things or actions can speak and hurt me, HE NEVER GETS IT. THis man has known me since I was 10 years old, dated 13 and married 15 years..
he is never sensitive to my needs until after he figures out I am PO'd and he screwed up. But, alcohol on the fire doesn't help either in any situation.
Lwt him consider that you were annoyed at not even being introduced and small talk with a quick I wiil catch you later to be polite....This guy may try to be kind, but is the total package....We meet them, not rear them.
But be stong enough to know it is not you....it is him.....
Hugs and have the best day your can have,
Di
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