All we can do here is offer moral support and listen and try to offer advice. I wish we could do more but what more could we possibly do? I can totally empathize with what you are going through. If I were your parent I could personally take charge, but even then I don't know how much I could do.

You have to go through the system and wait for all of the steps just like all of us had to do. We can't make it go any faster for you, as much as we would like to help you. Try not to stress out if you can.