I'm sure UCLA and UCSF are probably the same. Thanks for the tip on calling them every day.

My daughter has mild autism so it's hard for her to be empathetic. We spoke last night and she said she was just being mean and knows I'm really hurting. My husband just sucks. I've complained about him before. He does help, it's just not at the rate or quality I'd do myself. I'm very verbal to him about what's going on. I really just need a housewife, it's too bad I'm not a lesbian.