Just an update on our dating. We are doing very well, she has started to tell me more about her condition and she is accepting me being around her and touching her(holding hands, hugging, kissing). She is so wonderful! For me, I think this will be the one.

We are still experiencing some miscommunication issues about she thinking that when I come over, that we have to go out. I know when we do go out, she usually has a flare up that hurts her the next day.

If you know that you are going out for the day, would you risk a flareup? When I come over, my girlfriend and I go out and she has a flair up the next day. I have told her in the past that I am content in staying home. Do you think she is goes out because she feels guility or does she want to go out?

I would like some opinions. I hate seeing her the next day breaking down crying in pain.