I'm so sorry, what an insensitive idiot he is. One day he will need understanding for a health issue himself and will maybe realise how horrible it is to be judged on something you can do nothing about....until then, you are better off without him if he cannot love you for who you are.

You must be devastated. My husband is normally pretty great, but sometimes he does wander off emotionally, as though he just can't deal with it for a few days. It's always hard to think that this danged thing affects him so much, and that he needs some time off from it....wish I could! You sound like your pain is really peaking at the moment, so it might be worth seeing your doc and asking for some more help to manage it.

You will find someone who can love you for all that you are, including the CRPS. Never give up, because you are worth so much more than this guy has made you believe for now....

Bram.