I don't know if this advice will help any, but here goes...

When I was 6 years old. I decided to be a bit of a daredevil and ride a men's bicycle. I, fell, straight down onto the crossbar. I ended up in the hospital for close to two weeks. Had a vaginal/urethra reconstruction. I also had a bloodclot the size of a grapefruit, and there was doubt I could bear children. After they removed the catheter, one of my nurses explained Kegel Exercises to me. In order to build up the muscles in that region of my body.

I would recommend trying them daily, to see, if you could build those muscles back to strength, just because, of what I learned when I was 6.