I'm so sorry about your wife. 66 years is a long time. You two were lucky to have each other!

I really don't know what he'd say if I asked him if he'd trade places with me. He'd probably say something like that he'd be able to heal himself by now, or something just as horrible and insensitive. He had his first migraine about a year ago, after seeing me suffer for years, but it's a really good question to ask him.