BF I am glad that you are feeling better today, Best not to be confrontational and use the letter to break the ice. I think it is tough to hear women "feelings", LOL.

Things sound like they are going so much better today and you should have a better weekend then week,
I am hoping so much that it is a real enjoyable weekend.
I wouldn;t worry about the other woman either as she is older and he must enjoy getting medical advice from her.

When you are sick, or in need as we are or support, you take it from all you get....Terrible to be alone and suffering, no matter what illness, disease, or problems we have. I know I would not even be functional without the support if loving, caring friends.
I love you all dearly and hope that Doug knows how lucky he is to have someone careing so much for him and willing to be there.
HUGS
Di