Hi, I am new to this forum. I too have ear problems. Mine do not seem as bad as yours but ears are only a part of my issues. I have constant earaches for the past ten years, double earaches. Ever since I let someone borrow my ear drops for their swimmer ear. I seem to have this infection now. I think they touched the dropper to their ear in using them. My immune system is constantly being bombarded from what appears to be from old root canal infections. I don"t know if this helps you but I use colloidal silver this helps quell the pain.
I have due to what seems like an infection. Mine gets worse under stress. Doctor are no help they only say everything I fine. Constant pain is not fine though. your ear problems sound completely different. what have the doctor's told you? Anything? I had a broken ear drum a child they put a splint it it and said I would out grow it. I was told to not blow my nose or get water in them. I don't worry about this too much anymore doesn't bother me in that way. It was so long ago, (40 years). I have no idea how my ear drum got broken. The doctor asked me who hit me. I couldn't remember anything like that happening. I wish you luck in your quest to finding solutions.