Thanks for the replies everyone!

I'm going to look into those vests Nancy, thanks for the recommendation. They look very promising!

And thanks for the input Eric, that's exactly what i have been dealing with. Just learning to shrug it off now. I told them I am not looking for pity from anyone, just want them to understand that it is tough. Especially being young and having such stupid limitations. Doesn't help I was so active before, probably why they think I'm milking it. True friends will stick with me.

Again thanks everyone for the replies, have a good week!