Hi. you wrote: "He's an "energy healer" and every time he touches me to "heal" me he hurts me. For example, I ask him to rub my feet and instead of just lightly rubbing them he starts yanking on them and twisting my foot around even though I explain it over and over. He never actually does reiki on me."

He's hurting you, plain and simple (and please people, don't gang up on me). I'm not talking about a guy simply ignoring his wife. I'm talking about a man who is NOT LISTENING to her simple requests. Who is a Stay At Home Dad but yet will not help her when she needs him to be there for her (and for their daughter). He plays video games (that speaks volumes).

He's addicted to gaming. I am not trying to hurt you. Please know this. I'm trying to possibly help you save your life. If you have enough money to sustain you and your daughter, then by all means do whatever you need to do to have PEACE in your life. This stress will kill you. And believe me, what's happening right now is adding stress and that alone will cause you more pain.

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I don't know if you have any other family (what about his family, does he have any?)

It's good that you have a job and it's even better that you are coming into a bit of money. You know what you need to do (either now, or eventually).

Keep posting. We care.

Melody