Your situation is so heart rending. I do understand about the isolation, as I for years was consigned to my bed where I watched the world pass by [kinda like the time traveller in H.G. Wells Time Machine]. Then the resulting inability to help around the house did lead to deterioration which was difficult to overcome when we tried to, and did, sell it.

I just wanna reach out and give you a hug,
at least I am good for that,