Kathy,
Shew I thought it was just me. I was feeling so bad for my husband. I kept turning him away. Plus all the hot flashes really don't make you feel all that attractive either. But I finally said you know what I don't care how much it hurts I am getting mine. Then of course I pay for it later, I have RSD in my hips if you can imagine. And then to see all of these response I am seeing that my husband was right and it is all related to this nasty thing that is trying to take over my life. It has stolen my job, my business, my house, my health, my sleep, but I refuse to give up my sex life LOL.