Angelina,
I'm sorry I'm late in responding to your post. I can so much relate to your situation. I just got approved for SCS today and to tell the truth I really did not want to be. I had 4 denials so I thought the insurance would never approve it. I thought that would make my decision for me.
But, after 9 (tommorrow 10) nerve blocks I'm running out out of that option and the pain starts to return. My range of motion is still very limited so I pretty much type one handed.
I'm very afraid as well so I'm sure we share many of the same concerns. When do you or did you have your trial?
How old is your daughter? I wish I was closer b/c I would come to help you.
I know what you mean by the opinions of friends and family. I feel like no matter what I do to explain to them - they just don't get it!!