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Originally Posted by bizi
I understand better now mari. 
When you have little expectations then you don't set yourself up to be disappointed.... and then perhaps when she does do something out of the ordinary you will be surprised... this can apply to anyone ..spouses.... family....friends....coworkers...etc. somehow rereading this ..it doesn't sound right...does this make any sense to you?
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bizi |
Dear Bizi,
Yes, this is about right.
What's weird is that she seemed to be the same way with her mother -- no expectations.
Even now in her 60s, my mother adopts older women. She likes to be around them and let them kind of mother her.
M.