doydie,
I am hoping you can talk your husband into working out with you.
I am not very good at going someplace to workout and prefer the privacy of my own home.
Last year after several months of keeping my thoughts to myself while I weighed the pros and cons I finally told my husband I wanted to get a weight machine. I didn't know anything about weight machines but I explained to both my husband and son what I wanted...they knew what I needed/wanted.
In October 2012 we bought a 4 station weight machine ---- it's awesome! I absolutely love it!
It has two sets of weights --- one set for 2 stations and the other set of weights for the other 2 stations. All I have to do is pull a pin and put the pin back in for the amount of weight I want.
My husband and I workout together. I use two of the stations and he uses the other 2 stations. We switch stations on different days.
Working out together has kept both of motivated.
If your husband won't work out with you, you keep going anyway