TK,

I'm so sorry that you are dealing with this. That someone who has professed to love you through sickness and health would kick you while your down, just infuriates me.

I would try to focus on YOU right now. You've got enough on your plate with the scs situation. When your own health issues are a bit more stable, I would revisit this issue with your husband. If you aren't already seeing a counselor, I would start now. Confronting your husband, which for me would HAVE to happen at some point, can end 1 of 3 ways.....it's either going to make things better/get things back on track, stay the same, or make the option of staying with him totally unacceptable. I would want to have some emergency plans in place incase that conversation(s) went horribly wrong.

As Bramble said, you've been dealing with the RSD monster, we KNOW that you are strong.

Take care of yourself....and know that you ARE supported, here at least