Thanks again for your help
NC really is only humid and hot on consistent basis from June till Sept but at least it is not as bad as FL. I know they get some cold weather but the average high is 50.It depends on the area because NC varies a lot depending on where you live. In the US I have researched every state and other then CA you will get some cold or hot weather. I dont expect perfection and I can accept some not so great weather but for ex MI winters last so long. Even where I lived in CA it got hot though it was dry heat many days would reach 100.
I also want to find a place where one day hopefully I can support myself if I get to a better pain place. I feel blessed that I have family that can help me finance wise but I hate having to live off them if that makes sense too. I so want to be financially able to take care of myself and it is a huge goal.
Anyhow my mom and I chatted and I need to visit MI in the winter before I move back. If weather was not an issue for me I would but it is. It makes me sad but I will visit a lot in the mean time I guess and she will come to see me.
Chaos I agree CA varies a lot in price but the less expensive areas usually come with severe heat or crime. I think for ex Sacramento gets both. I never knew some parts of CA could reach 110. Though it is dry heat it is so hot still. I heard TX is nice but it varies too a lot in temps. As echo said there is pluses and minuses to everything. This condition is a big minus that is for sure
Thanks again