Hi senu87,
Welcome to the NeuroTalk Support Groups.

I'm sorry I can't answer any of your questions specifically, but just wanted to extend a welcome.

I'll post the link for the Epilepsy Forum below so that maybe you can ask people there who are dealing with similar issues.
There is also helpful information in the "stickies" which are the listed at the top current threads. e.g. Useful sites and Resources, Helpful information etc..

Epilepsy Forum for Epilepsy and Seizure Disorders