It's difficult to discuss these various opinions without links to their sources to examine the source, context, qualifications, etc. If the source is your own doctors, then their opinions are just that -- opinions, albeit medical opinions based on their knowledge, continuing education, and experience.

I think you've really answered your own questions though. Common sense, moderation, and experience govern alcohol consumption for most mature adults who do not have abuse issues, regardless of whether or not they have PN.

I used to be a moderate responsible social drinker. I stopped drinking when I developed chronic pain issues (a few years before PN manifested) because some of the meds I was on at the time would not mix well with alcohol. I guess, as you say, it's different for each person, because I've never once felt tempted, sad, or left out.

Could I try it sometime? Probably, but I don't need it to participate in social situations, and my gut tells me that I would pay for it afterward, and it's not worth it to me now.

A commonality of those here who've learned to cope/live with and/or conquer PN is to listen to our bodies. Bottom line, if drinking exacerbates one's symptoms, either during or afterward, it's probably not a good idea for that person to drink.

Not to preach, but to weigh in with honest down-to-earth genuine talk, one of the definitions of addiction is the continued use of a mood altering substance or behavior despite adverse consequences.

Doc