He decided to leave...he says he needs to figure out himself before we can work on our marriage. I pretty much begged him to stay with me and let me help him but he will not listen to me. Thank you for your responses and kind words, but I might not be back here for a while....I am pretty destroyed by this. I wish he had told me how he felt sooner, but right now, there is nothing I can say to him or do for him. He is really shutting me out. I do not know what else to say except thank you. If we can work this out I will let you all know but for now I think I want to be alone too. Thank you all again