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Many of us understand the desperation behind your words "tell me what they need to hear...." We CAN'T give you THE answer, because there isn't only one correct answer to any of the questions.......and the possibility of not accurately describing YOUR condition could be fraudulent.

Because it is so difficult to thoroughly and concisely as possible get all of the facts across, you might want to type out your answers so that you can cut and paste, or add new facts when you remember. If you do that and post parts here, we might be able to offer helpful suggestions to elaborate on some points, or parts that need to be more clear, etc without putting words into your mouth.