I wish I would have known that there are some people, even professionals and loved ones, who just won't get it. And even more importantly, that stressing about them "not getting it" and feeling all defensive and indignant, was NOT worth the energy. It took away my sense of peace, which affected my healing.
I wish I would have gone easier on myself because although it seemed like an eternity off work, it now seems like it was a blink of an eye. Shorter than a maternity leave. And stressing about it did me no good.
I wish I would have known how to disengage from the anxiety caused by this injury.
But overall I wish I'd learned sooner how to live in the moment, and be grateful. I'm thankful for some suffering to teach me these things, and I pray to never forget.
I'm indebted to this place, the advice found here, particularly from the committed members who never give up on us newbies (that's you Mark... Thank you!) and I praise the invention of the ICE PACK!