Hope you and Mr. Alffe had goooooooooooooooooood breakfast.
We are going to "up and away" to breakfast, then to church for worship....try to do it in reverse order today to "beat the crush."
I misspelled Neil because I know an Neill. My error, not your lead.
May your loving and caring for grandson ultimately lead to healing in that family. Hard, I am sure, for he does not Want to "go there." Even so, he perpetuates the legacy of hurt For His Own Children if he cannot and will not obtain help so as to live through his stages of grief. How well reminded I am of the truth "no one is an island." Cast adrift onto the swells of humanity, we each need the other, lest we engage in destructive behaviors, whether of body as some venture..... or of emotion as your grandson lives.
Unbidden, I will pray. Can't hurt,