Hun i FEEL YOU PAIN, IT MUST BE HARD. when i WENT FOR HELP IN 2003 MY HUSBAND STOPPED Drinking to help me. H e did not have a problem.I did

Just do your program and one day he will see how great your doing. I know it's hard in the beginning. Reward your self.Get your nails done go tanning.Go to closed discussion group and get help there. Keep saying the serenity prayers.Accept the things we can change and the things we cannot. We cant change him and your doing awesome. Big hugs and congrats one day at a time.

Dark side, just wondering how you are. Hope all is good.

I support what you are trying to do. I wish my huband would have done the same, his drinking problem led to depression and to then attemp suicide. I found him in enought time to save his life by givving CPR, but had he gotten treatment I don't think it would have led to that. So don't ever let anyone hold you back from what u feel is right if you want to live life sober than that's what you should do, If your loved ones don't support you than perhaps finding a friend that does would help.

My husband wasn't very supportive of me getting sober either. He would say that he was but then he would drink in front of me. I'm not making excuses, but it just made getting sober harder for me. I urge you to do everything in your power to stop. If you continue drinking the way that you are you're going to develop serious health problems. I hope you haven't relapsed again, but even if you have don't give up. You can get better, you CAN stop drinking. If you need to talk to anyone privately please feel free to message me. Good luck.

Sounds like your sobriety scares him. Have you tried Al-Anon? Can you get to meetings during times like when he is working to get the support you need? I think a women's meeting would be a good place for you to be.