Hi Melody!

I had read your response a couple of nights ago and was too tired to write.

I can't imagine having to move from an apartment after that many years.
Yet, maybe the change was good after all?
Luckily, your friend had a vacant apartment and could help out! Whew!
At least you did not have to leave your neighborhood.

In my state, there are laws whereby landlords cannot ask tenants to leave for a property sale. The new owner must ask, in writing, and cannot violate any written lease already in place. Additionally, if someone is renting month-to-month, they need a 60 day written notice in order to be asked to leave in response to a property sale. Yucky red tape. there are some extra protections for tenants.

Your gang at Dunkin Donuts sounds like a "family" and lots of fun!

Oh, great on the oral surgeon being honest and helpful!

Yes, I had recalled you and Alan would be getting very busy with appointments.

Any chance of getting into a program where you interact with children needing grandparents? I forget the names of some of these programs. They are similar to Big Brothers/Big Sisters, yet they involve grandparents for children wanting grandparents.

Children are fun. It's much easier to cope when they are not our own and we can return them after an activity, after a weekend, or after a week.

I hope you and Alan have some fun this weekend!

Warmly,
DejaVu

Hi. Every night at Dunkin, there are people with babies and we all go nuts over them. Even if I found a grandparent program. I can't walk that good because of the arthritis in my knees. I go where I need to go but it's by ambulette. I don't drive and Alan stopped driving years ago because of his severe neuropathy.

Life sucks sometimes. Lol

Melody

Hi Melody,
I just read your post on the PAD testing.
I agree with glenntaj on this.

If you happen to need a stent at any time, better it's done early!

Sorry about your knee arthritis.

Enjoy the babies!
Enjoy the weekend!
My best to you and to Alan!

DejaVu

On this stent thing. How do they get access? Do they put you to sleep. My mind is going bats worrying about this stuff. I need to relax and I don't do drugs. lol

Melody

Hi Melody!

Staying cool in this warm weather?

I am just seeing your question.

Here is an explanation of the angioplasty and stent placement:
https://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/...cle/007393.htm

I think this is a very busy week for you and for Alan.
I hope you are both comfortable and all is going well!

I like your blonde wig, by the way!
Have FUN with it!

Take excellent care!

DejaVu

Thank you my dear.

Busy? You want to hear busy?

Yesterday was the foot molding place, Hanger Clinic, and they molded Alan for his custom molded shoes and orthotics. I thought today I would have the day to myself. Not happening.

I get a call later yesterday saying 'Can Alan come in tomorrow for blood work and anaesthesia interview (sorry spelling).lol Of course I said 'sure'

This morning they call us up and say "Can you come in right now?"

We grabbed a cab, went to Lutheran and then began 4 to 5 hours of blood work (that was nothing, took five minutes) but we had to go into 3 separate rooms where they asked the exact same questions. I have no idea why but they did this. I happened to mention "didn't we just answer those questions in the other two rooms"? The person said "you are right but this is how we do this, we go over everything again and again".

We arrived at 9:30 am. and finished at 3:30 p.m. Then grabbed another cab home.

Tomorrow we go into NYC for the neuropathy support group meeting.

Friday is the Podiatrist.

I get off Sat and Sun, and Monday he gets ready for Tuesday's procedure.

They gave him a little packet with a bottle and some towels and he has to take a shower with half the bottle and rinse off right before bedtime and then get up at 4:a.m. and take another shower with the rest of the stuff. They said 'it's to disinfect". Then we grab ANOTHER cab and probably we will have to be there by 6:30 a.m. or so. We won't know until Monday night when someone is supposed to call us and tell us what time to come to the hospital Tuesday morning and where to go.

They also said 'He will most likely stay overnight" which means I shall, yet again, be sleeping in the chair right next to him. Because if you think I'm going to leave this man alone after all he's been through with the flomax side effects, the fainting, etc. etc, forget it. I don't let him out of my sight.

then he will come home with a catheter and I gather I just keep the rest of his body parts clean for one week and then we go back to the urologist.

I'm glad I bought a wig, I'm too tired to do my own hair. lol

Melody

Hi Melody,

You are busy!

Good thing you are agreeable and ready to catch a cab when they surprise you with such a call! 6 hours at the lab.

You and Alan must enjoy the NYC neuropathy support group?

It's a busy week for you and Alan!
Has it been warm there this week?

I did that disinfectant wash before a surgery a few years ago and I was so sensitive to the formula used then, when I arrived at the hospital, they asked why I was all red? It was a reaction to the disinfectant soap! Well, I looked more like this: , yet I wasn't angry. Lol!

I hope it does not aggravate Alan's psoriasis.

Glad you both have the weekend free!

The wig is great! Enjoy it!

Will be thinking of you!
Remind us of the surgery so we can lend support to you and to Alan!

Enjoy your evening at DDonuts!


DejaVu

Melody,

Did you get indestructable bracelets and a Lasso of Truth with your wig? For you are surely Wonder Woman, the things you do for Hubby!

Dave.