I was going to another forum,and your post caught my attention. It's hard for people without these issues to understand them. Try to explain this to your boy friend anyway.

Try to get medication for your adhd. I have OCD,and some more problems,and the medications are helping me big time. Sometimes it takes several medications to help your condition.

The way you asked for help caused me to come to the forum. Please ask a doctor the same way you asked here. Ask the doctor to help you. It sounds like you are desperate. Don't give up.

I'm usually on Neurotalk.( In the Bipolar forum) There are many caring people there,and you are invited. Brokenfriend
What I meant to say is that I'm usually in the Bipolar forum,and you are invited. Brokenfriend