no pun intended...

That just because there is a "label" for something, that you should
explore other causes. Labels tend to restrict people sometimes, and don't assume
ADHD is a major reason for the anger. It could be something else.

Some new studies are showing that ADHD resolves in kids after a slight delay in development. I now wonder about Adult ADD.

Inablilty to focus can be due to so many medical problems, that labeling it narrowly can limit your access to solutions. (for adults, that is). I used to have a thread on old Braintalk that linked to 50 other diagnoses, for ADHD in kids. That site is no longer on the web.
But it was sobering.

Medications can cloud the issue and also the label itself. So, Randy, keep an open mind and explore many possibilities.

This study has been misinteprested by far too many people. It does not show that ADHD resolves or goes away. It shows that development of part of the brain is delayed and catches up. The two are not one in the same.

I am a wife with ADHD - had no idea the effect it was having on my husband (married 31 years ). Hormones came into the equation too. Now that I know he's not to blame for my problems things are X1000 better!

He has put up with a lot of anger over the years. Now things are different and better - but I am becoming 'myself' at last so the relationship is also changing!

You can also check out ADHD coaches that are in your area. They might be able to help you. Power Systems coaching also works on relationship coaching as well as life coaching such as organization, etc. I would definitely google it.

I was dx'd with adhd and on Ritalin and I was mainly very delayed and hyperactive. My son wasw dx'd with adhd at age 3 and put on Ritalin, then Concerta, then Adderall and many others. They made him all sick when they wore off in his system and one day at age 5 I caught him attempting to drink some wine in an attempt to self medicate as his Ritalin was wearing off. I met a hollistic doctor (the best one yet!) He suggested using Omega vitamins only in lieu of stimulants in conjunction with exercise, deterents, distractions etc ... when he felt "out of control." He is an honor roll student now and I think that all or most of us with adhd must find our niche in ife and use exercise as a great vice to overcome so much of our additional energies that build up and create so much havoc in our lives. Take care.

Hi there,
Have you been taking Adderall or? I am 45, with severe PMS and mood swings/anger... My doctor and I have been discussing Adderall, but I'm afraid of most big Pharma, so have just tried to get along in life as best I can. Work is extremely demanding now and my focus, productivity os more critical than ever... I'm at a crossroads. Any insights would be appreciated.