Over the weekend I got a letter from the City , criminal division. When I went to court for the 2nd time and he didn' show up, the judge said that his attorney called and he/she and my husband did not have enough time to discuss the case. Come to find out, it was my husband was NOT cooperating with the attorney. Now he/she has motioned to withdraw from the case.

Now, a warrant for his arrest is out, this will follow him plus the charges anywhere he goes for a job, etc.

I spoke to my court advocate, and it seems as though my husband thinks that if he does nothing, this will all go away, not true, this is good for 5 years.

Since there still is a court date for the 16th of OCT, my court advocate says we should go, to keep this alive and the courts aware, then again he could show up, which I doubt, unless he has one damn good lawyer, because he just put himself deeper in doo doo.

I am totally FED UP. The order of protection that the judge originally gave to him at his arrainment is still good, since mine got sent back to court, because they only make so many attempts and he dodged all of them.

I doubt he went back East, because his love of this state, plus all his coats are still here, and he is very materialistic. Among other things.
Plus, I don't think his Dad would want him at his house, with no job, no car, and he probably doesn't even know that there is a warrant out for his arrest. Plus his Dad would have to give him the money to fly back.

This whole ordeal is just snowballing.

I just have to keep on my toes, since he doesn't seem to care about the court system, God knows what he is thinking or will do. I doubt the piece of paper he got "Order of Protection" is going to stop him now.

This is the deep pits. Been sick all night, headaches, throwing up. Had to postpone my MRI and Brain Cat Scan till Wednesday.

Talk soon, take care.....Hugs, Nikko




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Stay safe. And keep your eyes open.

Hugs.

Barbara

yes stay safe...it is so understandable why you are so upset....anybody in their right mind would be. I think you are going through the hardest part now but there is a glowing light at the end of the scary tunnel....you have to remember that. I am so very sorry you have to be going through this. It sounds as if he has invented the word denial. What a coward.
Bobby

Thanks, he is still in this state.

I emailed his Dad, and as I thought, he had no idea. See my husband figured his father would never find out because me and his Dad weren't talking after the ordeal.

Anyway, his father thanked me, was shocked, and said he would get back to me.. I assume he will start by just asking my husband general ????? to see if my husband lies, which he will, then my FIL will know I am right, or my husband will fess up, if he thinks I had something to do with letting his Dad know.

I said to my FIL his son needs help, and I can't do it. But I think there is still time for my husband to makes things right with the court, not sure.

No more I can do, but wait. I even told my FIL if he wants I will send him a copy of the letter. He knows I don't lie. My husband is a master of lieing and manipulating, so lets see how he handles this with his Dad, should prove interesting.

I did because I thought his Dad should know. We were always close and his son needs help, so maybe he can get through to him.

Hugs, Nikko