[Brokenfriend]

They are doing it again. I just got out of the hospital,and my family are recieving more money from me. I feel like I'm being manuvered out from under the family umbrella,into the government system. This makes me feel awful.

I can't help that I'm sick with mental health issues. They are rushing me out,and this feels so bad. I am rejected by family. I don't understand. BF

[Hockey]

Dear BF,

There is something so unfathonably cruel about being betrayed by one's own flesh and blood. Still, I can't help but think that the faster and further you get away from these people the better off you will be.

Family really has little to do with DNA. Family is people that love you - and often the ones we end up building ourselves are better than the ones we were born with.

[Mari]

Dear Friend,
Stop giving them money.
Contact the housing agency on Monday.

I'm sorry.
Some people are not nice.
When you get away from them, you can find other folks that are nice.

M.

[BlueMajo]

Ugh, I hate the fact that we cant choose our families...

It always impress me, how our family can be the worst friends sometimes...

BF, dont give them money, and, more important, dont feel bad or worried, it is not you who is doing the things wrong... so, you try to relax and if you can, ignore them... I know it is difficult, I know it is hard but...

HUGS for you in the mean time

[Brokenfriend]

They say that I use to much water,and to much electricity. My sister said that I aged her. I was trying to help clean the house that she was in,and she didn't like the way that I did it. Then it was one thing,or another.

Now I stay away,and now they want me to move away out of this old house into the medicaid system. I don't have money to give them anymore.

My self esteem is hurt continually by her. My Dad loved me. My heart is broken by all of this. BF

[Mari]

Dear Friend,
I am sorry for the pain that they are causing.
Mari

[BlueMajo]

((((((((((BF))))))))))

My family have broken my heart more than once... I know how you feel...

Im so sorry... Wish I could do more to help you...

[Brokenfriend]

I got along with the hospital staff,and the patients. I miss them. We could watch TV after 8:30 PM,until 11:00,or 11:30 PM. I miss the company. I didn't know how alone I feel. BF

[Yellowfever]

That was well said. I know how you feel BF. It breaks my heart to hear about this. I am sorry that they are not that supportive and understanding of your condition. My parents and I have a better relationship ever since I moved out into another house. My mom is more supportive and sensitive about my mood disorder. Perhaps distance will help? I am not sure because I do not know them. But I do hope things get better and remember we are all in this together.

Sharla

Originally Posted by Hockey

Dear BF,

There is something so unfathonably cruel about being betrayed by one's own flesh and blood. Still, I can't help but think that the faster and further you get away from these people the better off you will be.

Family really has little to do with DNA. Family is people that love you - and often the ones we end up building ourselves are better than the ones we were born with.

[Dmom3005]

Friend

See if you can do a day program for one thing.

Next ask to see the electric bill and the water bills. Then find out where you go to register for the assistance program for these type of programs for winter months.

You will qualify if you can take the bills. You then set a amount that you decide you can pay to them. Say $100 dollars a month for both these bills.
But its possible the government will pay a lot more for the winter months for the heat. So let them.

This will help your family with the bills.

Also get ahold of your social worker and get yourself moved up on the list.
Explaining that they want you out. And your not sure how long they will
wait to sell the house or something like this.

This would make you a (Homeless person) this would put you at the top
of the list. So it might mean you could get into housing immediately.

Donna