Thanks you two. I am okay. My eye feels better today. I think it was hurting last night from the saline flush of my sinues or strain from driving. I should not be driving yet but have no choice.

Today I am staying home to get bills paid and organize my paper work. I have decided to pursue to sue my ex husband's place of employment to find out if I was the beneficiary of one of his savings plans. That had me all stressed out yesterday. I must have talked my bf to death last night getting all my emotions out about it. He just let me talk and talk bless his soul. It's a big decision as I know from the previous court battle that it is a very emotional and stressful thing to go through. I feel a lot better and more relaxed today than I had been since I started to bring all this stuff up again.

barbara

oh dear
 

i feel for you Barbara. legal stuff makes me cringe. :o good luck with that!

i am glad your eye is better!!! hot sausage grease is sooo nottt a good eye condiment. :eek:

~ waves ~

Thank you Waves. I can imagine you'll be catching up on rest tonight.

My left neck and shoulder are killing me today. I didn't get as much done as I would have liked to.

I am glad that your eye feels better!
and am very happy that your bf allows you to vent and talk thru stuff.
good bf!
bizi

Thanks Beth.

I am feeling down today. I posted in other support sites early Monday about the stress I am going through and no one responded. I emailed a cousin of mine out of the country who found me through facebook with the problem I have of not having my brother in town associate with me and no response. I emailed her early Monday. This forum here at NeuroTalk seems to be the only place that I can talk about things that have me stressed out and get support. I can't understand why I get no responses anywhere else. It makes me feel so all alone and like I don't really matter to these other people. My bf is really the only one in 3-D that I have that has a head on his shoulders that I talk to. He is always so busy with other things though that I hardly have him to talk to.

My best friend from the old neighborhood is having problems with the Mental Health clinic like always. Since she is in the supported living program so she is to get rides to necessary places she needs to go and she is not getting these rides. She is missing out on important rides to places that are pertinent for her to get to. I talked to the assistant director of the mental health clinic about it yesterday and gave her some history and told her to look for my friend to call. The assistant director thanked me for the call and for looking out for my friend. That made me feel so good and like I'm somebody. I kind of look out for this friend and see to it that she is taken care of and it fulfills my need to have someone to worry about and take care of. I just wish I had someone to look after me sometimes.

barbara

I'm there
 

I know I am not in 3-D and you do not know me but I too know what it is like to feel alone. If you ever want to vent or anything that would make you feel better just send me a message and I will be there for you. I do not have all the right answers but I will do my best and I am a great listener or in this case reader. You seem to already have a great support group on this site but if you need another just let me know. Oh and by the way you are always somebody no matter what you do!! Your best friend seems to really care about you so can you explain to him that you need him because you are going through some stuff. Maybe he can make some extra time for you. I am sorry you feel that you don't have anyone to look after you!!:(

collinsc (colleen):hug:

Thanks Collins, it is good to have plenty of support here. I have an appointment with my new lawyer in the morning. I am blank at the moment as to what to say to him though. I hope that my bf will have time to talk to me a long time tonight. He's got to cut grass and there's no telling how late he'll have to work. We are expecting a really, really, bad storm tonight.

barbara

I am sure by the time morning rolls around you will have figured out plenty of things to say to your lawyer. I hope your friend does not have to work too late so he can help you figure things out! Good luck with that storm, we are damp and cold here but no storm.

collinsc

Thank you Colleen. I'm sure I will.

barbara

Dear Barbara,
Maybe if you write things down in an outline time line basic info and then fill in the details.
It was very nice of you to look out and be an advocate for your friend.
bizi:)