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04-29-2010, 03:18 PM | #1 | |||
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Wisest Elder Ever
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a girl friend of mine has 2 boys that are add and they have anger management issues but eventually apoligize for their behavior hours later when they have calmed down.
there is a difiant disorder????? and waves could be right...he is only 17 and could just be acting self centered/??? I don't know. It hurts when you get rejected... for any reason. we will give you hugs here. ((((((HUGS))))) bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Brokenfriend (05-01-2010) |
04-30-2010, 02:07 AM | #2 | |||
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MegVeg, I am so glad to see you post but sorry about your brother. Unfortunately the more we do at that age, the angrier they get. A lot of it is hormonal, add a bit of emotional and the drama hurts those that care.
he needs a release for emotions. would he consider doing some peer work, one day a week after school help at a program for kids, cleaning a park of liter. I had family members that were in a real funk as I was too, lots of stress. We started to volunteer serving dinner to kids at a local after school program, from first to sixth grade. They love seeing us come. It makes us feel good too.....Never thought emotionally we had the strength and I asked all of them to come with me at least once.....and they all have gone again. You need to be needed, Hope things work out, sending supportive thoughts and prayers, di
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"Thanks for this!" says: | bizi (04-30-2010), Brokenfriend (05-01-2010) |
04-30-2010, 03:36 PM | #3 | |||
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Grand Magnate
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Meg, it could also be sible rivalty on your brother's part.
Barbra |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | Brokenfriend (05-01-2010) |
05-01-2010, 12:52 AM | #4 | |||
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i want to clarify:
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what i was suggesting is that he could be prey to an internal defense mechanism, which would be involuntary, subconscious, and self-preserving, NOT self-centered. (when this sort of thing happens it still really hurts the people on the other end - in this case you Meg.) i like Di's suggestion on the peer work. it seems like that could help regardless what the cause of the problem is. if both of you are able and willing. ~ waves ~ |
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05-01-2010, 02:30 AM | #5 | |||
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Based on what I hear,I think that he may have a bullie problem. Somebody is bothering him maybe at school.
Does he have any learning disabilities? These things may be all pinned up inside plus hormones,and the other aggrivations he is displaying. It sounds like he is really angery,and it's pinned up in him. For your own good please stay away from him at this time. My dad had a terrible temper,and when I was around him when I was growing up,when he'd blow up with his temper,I caught the shrapnel. Please be careful around him at this time. Is there a guidence counsellor that he can talk to at school,or somebody who he trusts? BF |
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05-01-2010, 12:19 PM | #6 | |||
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Wisest Elder Ever
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sorry I did not mean to lump those statements together.
they were seperate thoughts. bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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"Thanks for this!" says: | waves (05-01-2010) |
05-01-2010, 12:40 PM | #7 | |||
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Legendary
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ahhh! all is revealed!
no prob! i appreciate the explanation though ... i am relieved... when i saw your post i thought maybe mine read differently than i had intended. ~ waves ~ |
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