Hi,

Right now Hubby and I have our internet, digital home phone, and tv bundled. I really hate the phone because voice quality is horrible (much worse than cell phone for example). I also hate the phone because in the event of loss of electricity, we would only have a few hours of usage.
But I have gotten used to his latest system.

Hubby periodically decides he want to change things. Right now he wants to get rid of the whole set up again -- stop cable to go back to antenna tv, watch Netflix instead, . . . . I told him that he does not get to make decisions without me. It's bad enough that he took away my phone. Now it wants to get rid of it again . . .

I told him he has to talk things through with me first. He thinks I am being unreasonable. I want these kinds of things to settle down and stay the same.

A friend of his boasts about how cheap his set up is. I told hubby that maybe there is a reason his friend is single.

I want to feel comfortable in my own place. And I want hubby to have an interest in my being comfortable. I do know that hubby's ocd gets kicked up when he thinks about the bills. I do not know how to reconcile our competing anxiety issues.

M.