I don't mean to be scaremongering, Donna, but it is very hot. On top of that, an angry young man who talks about killing a wife or child operates on a hair-trigger. Anything can set him off.

The timing may not be up to you.

I don't want bad stuff to happen here. I'm glad Jessica & Ethan are away. They should stay away. I think you & your husband should too, unless your husband is trained in these things. 8 people died today in a family dispute--don't have the details. But things happen.

So, can you keep Ethan and Jessica at your home ??

Do you think Danny will accept to go back to his meds ??

Sorry if Im sounding stupid...

Turns out it was over stated I believe.

Not sure what he said, Think he was yelling more than anything.

But when Jessica left she didn't take Ethan.

But she had miss placed her debit card. She is back a couple of
hours later.

But Ethan wasn't afraid.

But he was over here for a while. And had food with us.

So did Danny.


I believe I have found the problem, and just as soon as I can
I'll be solving it. My husband wont do it. He is ignoring the
problem.


THere one air conditioner isn't working right. The central air
hasn't worked for two years.

They don't have good fans. I have a big one that is headed
that way. Just as soon as I can get it down the stairs.
And I'm going to town for another reason in the morning.

But suffice to say, a new air conditioner will be coming with
me.

Donna

I'm not going to not pay attention. I'm well aware of what he can do.

But I am pretty sure he is okay right now. He made the statement,
he needs to be alone sometimes. And has no were there to be alone.

So I will work on that too. Coming to my house wont work. It will
put the rest at my house, and me in the way then.
But the house they are to move into. Is in good enough shape
for him to be able to go there.
And I'm pretty sure its cool enough too.


So I have made the suggestion. And will follow through. I wont
let the other two come into harm. Jessica's mom lives pretty close.

And I have a extra bed, that I offered to Ethan tonight. I would
go right now and take care of the air conditioner. But I have
Will, I promised him on Friday night. I have to prioritize. But sometimes
I have to go with what my gut says too.

And I think its okay. I'll watch.

Donna


(I asked him if he needed to go back to his psychiatrist, I suggested I make a appointment, He isnt' sure yet. But I'll ask again.) Its a
different answer than I expected. He used to always say NO!!!!! And this time he said, he wasn't sure. So I see that as a maybe. I
need a couple of days either way. For Derrick's doctors.

donna, you are wonderful in this mothering....
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

Thanks Bizi

I try, I am only human and I know it. I really took my lead this time
from ethan himself. He didn't seem to be afraid of his dad now.

Donna

Donna,

Let's hear it for the new air conditioning!

M

I spoke too soon. I couldn't find one. But they have two new good
fans. So that should help.

I feel so bad, but at least I didn't tell them I was buying one.

Thats how hot it has been around here.

Donna