Need to go back and fix post. This is the natural parent not the foster parent.

The guy is not exactly with it. It is looking like he wants the cat more
than the kids.

I really think lots of the problem is that most of his money went to the
foster parent with the kids.

Donna

Okay, I know its not good to be happy.

But the parent that wasn't wanting to work with me. That my
supervisor was looking for one of my advocate's to work with.

That she even trusted my judgement. Well I lucked out doubly.


Its the school that the Vice Principal wrote the letter that got
me in hot water last year. And to top it off, My supervisor had
even forgotten. Not a good time to remind her. I'm up for
review soon. But alas, my biggest problem she and I wont forget
its my organization.


But the biggest problem with this, is that this parent thinks that
this High school should allow her High school Gifted student.

That has anxiety, and other issues. To do the following.


Go to all kinds of practices, Some kind of skating practice in the
fall, in Illinois, right after school, till 6pm their time, which is 7pm ours.
And then start homework, But if she isn't done by 9pm, and doesn't
want to continue it should be okay.

Then in the winter, she is on the Varsity, Basketball team,

So mom thinks they should allow for the practice, then to do homework.

But she is allowed to ask for 1 extra day, if she really doesn't understand
something.


( Now the biggest problem is that Mom not daughter, wants to get all this.)
She will ask the teacher to give all the extra time, because Daughter wasn't
home to do homework. Because of extra things, besides the type of
practices I listed.

Mom has a job, that daughter goes and does some kind of theatre. Mom
works for Purdue.


The mom thinks its okay for Daughter, to not get the home work done, and
ask for the extra time.

Now don't get me wrong, when the daughter really doesn't understand something. She will ask for the time, and the TOR, will give it too her.
But the mother wants to control the situation. So she is emailing the school everyday, sometimes, 3 to 10 times. And asking for things.


So I have no problem not being involved anymore, I tried to be the buffer.
So I hope my Advocate can handle this. I know she can, but I hate to tell
the mom, she wont stick with her long. If she continues, to do what she
was with me.

Heehee.


I got a reprieve. I think God was looking down and decided, I needed to
know I was loved.

Donna

Dear Donna,
God does look out for you.

You are doing a great job handling the demands of the job and doing the right thing and watching out for yourself.

M

Dear Donna

i am glad for you that you don't have to deal with that apparently unreasonable parent a second time around!!!

and glad that now you know who it is, you are experiencing some relief instead of feeling down about it. you know YOU did the best you could, in regard to what was REASONABLE. you DID do YOUR job. she doesn't want accomodations, she wants to be treated like royalty.

some parents think they can run their kids, run the schools and... omg, are you sure she's not running for government office in some form ...

(((hugs)))

~ waves ~

Yes Waves

And to know I don't have to go back into that building "Whew"


I'm so happy.

Now to get my husband and our business straightened out.

I guess if its not one thing its another.

Okay, I can do this. I have someone to help me.

Donna