Hi all,

My younger brother in town hasn't returned my calls from his cell phone all week so I called their LAN line and his wife answered. We got to talking and it came up how I've been needing a colonoscopy for about a year but haven't had anyone to take me. She not once did say her husband who is my brother could take me on one of his days off during the week. That is just how my family is and everyone else I know in 3-D. They don't mind me doing for them but they don't want to so much as help me out when I've had diarrhea for over a year and living on Imodium because of the fact I don't have anyone to take me to colonsopy. The subject came up when I told my sister-in-law that now that I have some one to take me the doctor won't do it on count of the insurance kicking back all claims. I don't even dare ask my sister in law for them to take me because she stood me up 3 times last year and didn't even call me at all. They just don't give a hoot.



Life sucks.

befuddled2

Dear Befuddled,
Eventually, as you build a new life for yourself in the world, you will find new friends and family.

These people that you are talking about seem damaged in someway. I'm sorry that they are un caring.

I hope that your insurance gets worked out soon.
Mari

Thank you Mari,

I've been up all night with diarrhea. I was too upset to make sense when I
1st posted. I meant to say now that I won't be able to have the colonoscopy done when my ride can take me, I'll also lose my ride because they won't be able to take me after that week.

befuddled2

Dear Befuddled,
You made sense.
I understood what you said.
I'm sorry I can't give you more help through my words.
M.

Dear BF - I am so sorry you have to deal with this situation. I wish I had some way to make you smile.

I wish your family would help you too.

Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs, Nikko

this really does suck when your family is so selfish.
Do you have a neighbor to take you if you paid them?
are there other public transportation options available to you...red cross or handi capped bus? Could you rent a car for the day...do you drive?
The woman you talked to today...you could not ask her point blank if she could take you? or is that the woman who stood you up?
all sounds so terrible for you and unsupportive.
bizi