[Dmom3005]

I've been thinking of how we are hear for each other.
And how some places don't survive. Why was my thought to that?
My answer was they didn't care to listen, have the compassion to
care what happened to others. But most of all we don't allow trolls.

Yep Trolls, We don't allow trolls to come and take over our thoughts,
demean each other, put down what we need, want or think.

Most of all when one of us is hurting we worry, about that person.

I know many of us has been worrying about a critical part of our room
lately. And whether she is going to NYC, well I thought I'd take this
time to say. I've talked to her. And yes she is. But she still feels
she is causing or could cause problems in our room.

I find it so interesting that our friend, has this self esteem, yes that is
what it is to me. Problem, that she has turned it all into that she would
destroy this room, if she is here. One day, when she feels better, more
self assured. And like she thinks she should. She has promised to return,,
and tell us about her trip.



But the main reason I posted this, is I don't ever want anyone to feel this
way. Each and everyone of you is a vital part to this room. You are a vital
reason we are here today. We have succeeded in staying active and being here for each other. Because you are here. So when your up, down, over the top. Or just maniac, depressed, bi-polar, or like me fibromyalgia. Please
don't ever sell your self short.


Your the most important part of this room. Every day you don't post someone in this room knows it. And someone will be looking for you. So don't forget we are waiting to hear how you are doing.

We don't allow trolls to troll, but we do allow friends, to be needed, grieve, or just wanting of whatever life gives now. Please be here with us.

Each and every one of you.


Mayo I miss you.

Donna

[bizi]

This is so sweet of you donna.
and you are right, we are here for each other.
I am sorry that majo is feeling badly about coming here. I don't understand that.
We are here when she wants to return.
thank you for being you Donna.
(((((HUGS)))))
bizi

[Dmom3005]

I have to say this. But I have to also say its not anything
anyone has done. Its part of Mayo. But everyone needs to understand
to a degree that they can.

Mayo, has a fear that she is going to make this forum fall apart.
By saying, or doing something wrong.

I personally can understand that. I had that same problem for many
times, I'd say years when I first joined the original Epilepsy Foundation.
Which was destroyed by trolls, and people who came in and attacked.
Some of us, that were the foundation of the forum.

But the main reason they could, was because we didn't have the safety net,
that is here. A way to get a moderator to stop them, even on a weekend.

If we got attacked, we couldn't stop it, until the Monday, and they could post many threads and post. And we had a group, that didn't understand not to post back.

We here are the opposite, I believe if that happened. We wouldn't do it. We would just wait on our calery to fix the mess. Then return.

Its the biggest difference in our world her. Thanks to our Founder.

Which I love. So once again, no one can or would destroy this with their words, and be allowed to stay. Thats what Mayo needs to understand.

She couldn't do it by mistake. Someone would be there to help her figure it out. Thats the difference.

But its not just her in this case, it would be anyone that needed that Place
in our World, Just so everyone knows.

She will be back one day, Have fun Mayo in NYC, and we will be here when your ready.

Donna

[Mari]

Donna,

I appreciate your positive and helpful attitude.

M